Saturday, June 22, 2013

My email to the Roslindale Pathways Advisory Group


All:

I assume that you all have heard the news that the Haley will be converting to a K-8. 
 

I am sending this email for three  reasons. 
 

First is to let the whole committee know how much I have enjoyed getting to know you in the past year.  You have become my friends and I look forward to seeing you at the Irving next year where my daughter will be a 6th grader, and to fighting to good fight for Boston kids with you.  And if anyone wants to get together for a drink from time to time . . . well, let’s just say I could use some more of that in my life.

 
Second, I want to say how I feel about the Haley K-8 conversion.  There have been many times in the past year when I felt caught in the middle.  I came to RPAG meetings in good faith, hoping to offer what I could to the pathway.  But about halfway through the year I became aware that the Haley was making a tremendous push to convert to a K-8 and that it had a pretty good chance of success.

 When I first learned of those plans, my first reaction was not particularly positive.  Partly because of the pathway and partly for personal reasons.  As much as my kids and I love the Haley, my 5th grader has been a bit stir crazy and is really looking forward to the increased opportunities the Irving will offer her. 

As the Haley’s RPAG representative, I tried to play a limited role of increasing communication between the two sides.  That put me in a position to listen to what both sides had to say.   And I came out of that process convinced that the K-8 was the best thing. 

 The parents who pushed for the K-8 are parents of kids with IEPs, and they spoke on behalf of many other parents of kids with IEPs who were largely unaware that there was even a push being made for a K-8.  I have known some of those kids since they were toddlers.  I think of one child I know who came to the Haley in a mid-level grade and has been there for two years now.  The improvements she has made has been remarkable.  When asked about her favorite thing about the Haley she said, “I made friends.”  This was something new for her.

 I understand that the Irving could technically teach all Haley students, and I understand that there are some special-needs students that the Haley cannot accommodate and the Irving can.  I believe I am quoting Karen when I say that the kids with IEPs that the Haley helps the most are those who are capable of being in a regular classroom 80 percent of the time. (I assume she’s right about that -- I really don’t know the details.)

 What I have come to understand is that for those kids a full-inclusion school is absolutely the best educational opportunity for them, academically and socially.  I believe their IEP’s say that.  That means no AWC and no subseparate classrooms and no missing electives for extra help with academics.  Those kids, like all kids, have the right to learn in an environment that is best for them.  And for those kids who full inclusion is not right for -- diversity of schools is a strength of the BPS. 

 (I don’t want this to be an argument about semantics.  I know full inclusion does not mean every kid no matter what special needs they have can come to this school.  It means that the kids in the school are not separated out from one another based on their special needs.)

 
I would also note that in sitting at RPAG meetings it often struck me that the Haley was not a particularly good fit with the other elementary schools. The curriculum seems very different. 

 Third, I am writing to ask for civility in this debate.  The Haley parents who fought for the K-8 are members of your community and you will be crossing paths with them for a long time to come.  Also, they are lovely people, just like all of you.

 
All of them, like every parent, wants what is best for their kids.  That does not make them “entitled.”  It makes them caring parents. 

 
The conversion to a K-8 does not make the Haley like a charter school.  It is a public school with union teachers.  It will participate in the same lottery as all the other schools and every kid will have the same chance of getting in as they have at any other school.  Kids with IEP’s the Haley cannot accommodate will not be assigned there any more than they would be assigned to a different BPS school that can’t accommodate them. 
 
The video presented to the school committee was not a “fancy video.”  No offense to the people who made it -- it was lovely -- but it’s just a parent-made video. 

 It is not the goal of these parents to take away resources from other schools or from other kids or to “jump the line” on k-8 conversion.  They made a presentation to the administration that was compelling. 
 

The fact that resources are limited does not mean that we should hold everyone down -- and yes, that is how some of the comments come across.  It means that we should all fight for more resources so that every kid gets the education they need and deserve.  I am committed to doing that, and I know all of you are. 

 
Nina

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Maia's poem

This is a poem Maia wrote for a poetry contest . The theme of the contest was "Hidden Nature."  The poem she submitted was illustrated, but I can't figure out how to get the illustrations onto this blog.


SMALL NATURE 

by

Maia Frost

 

Flowers can be big or small,

But if you look closely,

You will see it all.

 

With roots, stems, petals, and leaves

Even pollen, and seeds.

 

Look around.

 

They might be camouflaged,

But look.

You might see

Bees, butterflies,

and maybe dragonflies.

 

The stripes on bees are smaller than bees.

Butterflies’ eyes are big enough to see

You and me.

The dragonfly’s emotion

Can cause a commotion,

Even though it’s quite small.

 

The flower can be home to it all.

 

Morgan's poem

Morgan won first place in her age group at the West Roxbury Public Library poetry competition for this poem.  The theme of the poetry contest is "Hidden Nature."


Small Things

                                                                    by Morgana Frost

 

Small things,

Hidden away,

Behind the wall,

Next to the tree,

Waiting, waiting,

For someone

To discover their secrets.

 

Small things,

A snail with a spiral shell,

A flower with exactly twelve petals,

No more, no less.

A blackbird’s  feather,

A leaf the color of sunset,

Wanting, wanting,

To be found.

These secrets are shared.

 
 

Small things,

Things that are not cared for,

A mother wren’s old shell,

A fox’s blood on the soiled ground,

A blade of grass,

Waving, waving,

In the gentle breeze.

A small thing,

Waiting all it’s life,

For freedom.

Small things,

Yet there are others,

Such as who likes who,

Or what your friends say

Behind your back.

Needing, needing,

To be hidden.

These small secrets

Are not meant to be-

Or maybe do not want to be-

Shared.

 
But secrets,

Little things,

A cat with no tail,

A dog with a round bone,

Two identical flowers,

These small secrets,

Are meant to be shared.

They are waiting,

Now and forever,

For someone...

 

Is it you?